Almost four hundred years ago, the colonists sat down at rough-hewn tables and gave thanks.  They were role models for us, teaching us to challenge our perspectives when things look bleak.  We hope that their much-needed message will be heard throughout our country, our community, and in our homes this month.  But what was the message?  Certainly, it wasn’t, “Eat all day and numb yourself to what’s really going on.”  No, the message of Thanksgiving is simple.  “Be of good cheer.  Count your blessings.  Take a moment to develop the attitude of gratitude for that which you have, and you will see how extremely rich you are.”

Yes, I agree.  It’s hard to do when you’ve lost your job, your home, or your retirement money.  That’s why I stand with the Pilgrims, challenging you to list your priorities, and to live them every day.  Currently, it is our sense of security that hangs in the balance, screaming that the loss of control (over economic times) means the loss of hope.  It is when we buy into that mentality that things get skewed.  For example, if I bow to the negativity of a bad economy, I may lose precious time for the things I really treasure.  My real treasures include my relationships: with God, with myself, with my family, and with others.  Which relationship am I serving when I snap at those around me, use chemicals to alter my mood, or stop practicing the daily disciplines that encourage my faith and remind me that I am not alone?  I guess those behaviors actually reinforce skewed thinking, and the fear becomes even bigger.

So, I’ve decided to combat those fears in small ways.  I’m listening to the news a little less, and trying to find my way through some tough decisions without losing sight of the absolutely incredible blessings that surround me every day.  I’m sharing my deep concerns with another trusted person, and looking to God for solution.  Most of all, I’m not allowing fear to paralyze me.  Yes, God feeds the birds . . . but He doesn’t throw the worms in their nests.  I do all I can, and then trust that I’ll survive the outcome.

I am hopeful that the Presidential Election motivated our fellow countrymen to take part in our government by exercising their right to vote.  Change is at hand.  Change is always at hand, but this month we will feel it and choose to be optimistic, or we will feel it and give in to pessimism and complaint.  I know which one makes me feel better, and I will actively work to be an encourager to all I meet.  No matter who wins/won the election, there is change at hand.  I want it to be vibrant and uplifting, and I want it to support my priorities and allow the sense of security to be restored to Americans everywhere.

Enjoy Thanksgiving in this issue and in your month ahead.  We, on the Treasure Coast of Florida, have so much for which to give thanks.  Should we forget, we can wander to the beach early in the day before the noise and the heat become overwhelming, and wade in the breaking waves.  There’s something about the greatness of the ocean that soothes the soul of man and puts everything in perspective again.  Happy wading.

Abundance and Peace to You and Yours,

Beth